The Happiness Project

书名:The Happiness ProjectOr,WhyISpentaYearTryingtoSingintheMorning,CleanMyClosets,FightRight,ReadAristotle,andGenerallyHaveMoreFun
作者:GretchenRubin
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ISBN:9780061583254
出版社:Harper
出版时间:2010-01-01
格式:epub/mobi/azw3/pdf
页数:320
豆瓣评分: 7.1

书籍简介:

Gretchen Rubin had an epiphany one rainy afternoon in the unlikeliest of places: a city bus. "The days are long, but the years are short," she realized. "Time is passing, and I'm not focusing enough on the things that really matter." In that moment, she decided to dedicate a year to her happiness project. In this lively and compelling account of that year, Rubin carves out her place alongside the authors of bestselling memoirs such as Julie and Julia , The Year of Living Biblically , and Eat, Pray, Love . With humor and insight, she chronicles her adventures during the twelve months she spent test-driving the wisdom of the ages, current scientific research, and lessons from popular culture about how to be happier. Rubin didn't have the option to uproot herself, nor did she really want to; instead she focused on improving her life as it was. Each month she tackled a new set of resolutions: give proofs of love, ask for help, find more fun, keep a gratitude notebook, forget about results. She immersed herself in principles set forth by all manner of experts, from Epicurus to Thoreau to Oprah to Martin Seligman to the Dalai Lama to see what worked for her—and what didn't. Her conclusions are sometimes surprising—she finds that money can buy happiness, when spent wisely; that novelty and challenge are powerful sources of happiness; that "treating" yourself can make you feel worse; that venting bad feelings doesn't relieve them; that the very smallest of changes can make the biggest difference—and they range from the practical to the profound. Written with charm and wit, The Happiness Project is illuminating yet entertaining, thought-provoking yet compulsively readable. Gretchen Rubin's passion for her subject jumps off the page, and reading just a few chapters of this book will inspire you to start your own happiness project.

作者简介:

I am the author of New York Times bestsellers The Happiness Project, Happier at Home, and Better Than Before, and The Four Tendencies. My next book, Outer Order Inner Calm , will be published March 2019.

Curious about The Four Tendencies? Find out if you're an Upholder, Obliger, Questioner, or Rebel (and how to harness your strengths. Take the free Four Tendencies quiz.

I have a popular, award-winning podcast, Happier with Gretchen Rubin (search in your favorite podcast app) and a blog (GretchenRubin.com), where I write about my daily adventures in happiness and habit-formation.

My previous books include a bestselling biography of Winston Churchill, Forty Ways to Look at Winston Churchill, and one of John Kennedy, Forty Ways to Look at JFK. My first book, Power Money Fame S..: A User's Guide, is social criticism in the guise of a user's manual. Profane Waste was a collaboration with artist Dana Hoey. I've also written three dreadful novels that are safely locked away in a drawer.

书友短评:

@ 小晨 好-无-聊。这种书浪费时间浪费感情,真的有意义吗。。 @ 鹿鹿小姐姐 讲的是纽约上东区一名女性花费1年时间找回快乐的心路历程,用词浅显,某些小tips不错,但总体上并无太多新意。 @ Way 13年的圣诞节礼物,断断续续读了小半年。关于寻找幸福/快乐的书籍总是相似的,陈述的道理也都大同小异。你做不做得到才是关键。这本书不太一样的地方是原理讲的比较少,而是用自己亲身做的事情来例证。好处在于例子生动活泼,缺陷在于普世性欠缺,太个人针对了,并且在框架、层次和结构性上不足,读起来容易失去耐心。 @ cucu 中途数次想弃,尤其是作者引经据典或者深度剖析的时候。感觉她的幸福计划实在有点强迫症倾向。有些tips还是可以试试的,也得到一些灵感启发,至于作者究竟幸福了吗究竟有何感觉对我而言真的无所谓呀。 @ 葡萄 鸡肋 @ 眼药水随身带 读不下去。感觉她让自己开心起来的各种实验都很…无聊 @ 知未 这本书信息密度很低,但是这个话题就还挺适合聊天的,作者的叙述也很personal,所以特别适合随便听听。 @ 惠 幸福就像青鸟 @ JW "I want to take myself less seriously and also more seriouly"

书籍目录

  • Contemporary research shows that happy people are more altruistic, more productive, more helpful, more likable, more creative, more resilient, more interested in others, friendlier, and healthier. Happy people make better friends, colleagues and citizens. I want to be one of these people. I know it was certainly easier for me to be good when I was happen. I was more patient, more forgiving, more energetic, more lighthearted, and more generous. Working on my happiness wouldn't just make me happier, it would boost the happiness of the people around.
    —— 引自第1页
  • 我快乐自己就会知道,这样就够了所有重要的事,都已经有人说过了——英国哲学家数学家怀德海如果我不断提醒自己某个目标和想法,它们在我脑中就会比较活跃。快乐是人生的意义和目的,也是人类存在的一切终极目标。 ——亚里士多德我们务必在带来快乐的事物中锻炼自己,因为如果快乐出现,我们便拥有一切;而如果快乐没出现,我没的所有行动便要致力于获取它。——伊比鳩鲁把钱用来让居家生活舒适,是最值得的。——Samuel Johnson为了要让自己感觉精力充沛,我的十二守则之一就派上用场了——“表现出自己想要的感觉”。这句话,总结了我研究快乐所学到最有帮助的洞见:尽管我们以为,要先有感觉,才会有与感觉相符的行为;但事实上,我们往往是因为有了那样的行为,才会有那样的感觉。哲学家与心理学家威廉詹姆斯(William James) 解释:" 一般以为感情主宰行为,但其实两者是相辅相成的;因此借着规范自己的行为(比较容易受意志所控制),我们可以间接规范自己的感觉(无法受意志所控制)。无论古今的任何忠告,都证实了这个看法:要改变我们的感觉,就应该先改变我们的行为举止。法国诗人勒维尔第:世界上没有爱,只有爱的证据.
    —— 引自第54页
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